I hate being the center of attention, but I did tell my co workers I got engaged. I have never even really told people if it was the day of my birthday or anything else. Anyways I'm starting to regret saying anything. Shortly after the engagement and after my co workers found out, one of my co workers tattled on me. I just have a sneaking suspicion that there is jealousy involved as there was no evidence my manager presented me outside of "you didn't do enough work". I honestly don't get it. Has anyone experienced this type of behavior? Btw I plan on not saying anything further about my wedding, I'll just get married, no pictures to show, no details nothing at all.