Hi everyone! I’m new here and really need some support. My boyfriend and I went engagement ring shopping in October and we found the perfect ring. He put it in layaway on Halloween 2018.
The ring is still in layaway and because I’ve been looking up rings for him, elopement packages, etc he has told me to “slow down.”
He put an e-ring on layaway and I need to slow down?! We co-own a car and have been living together since July. We are about to have a joint bank account. So it’s very serious.
I’m really disheartened right now, feeling that if I don’t get a proposal soon I may want to leave him. He’s been married before and got burned pretty badly, but I have never been married and can’t help that I’m excited and anxious for this to happen. It makes me feel like he’s getting cold feet. His last girlfriend he was with for 9 years and never married her. I don’t want to end up in her shoes.
Am I being unreasonable?